When Your Toddler Breaks You… Then Puts You Back Together Again.

When Your Toddler Breaks You… Then Puts You Back Together Again.

As a mum, have you ever had one of those days?

You know the kind where you’re desperately trying to hold yourself together with half a hair tie and a prayer, while the day just drags on like the world’s slowest soap opera. You’re smiling through clenched teeth, mentally checking off how many hours until bedtime like it’s some kind of twisted countdown to freedom.

And then bedtime arrives(oh joy!). The grand finale. The one sliver of hope you’ve been clinging to all day. The moment you imagine yourself sliding into silence, maybe pouring a glass of wine, maybe just not being touched for 30 seconds. But of course, no. No peace for you, weary warrior. Because it’s bedtime. And bedtime is apparently the toddler version of a hostage negotiation.

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Trying To Explain Trust To A 4 Year Old (And Realizing I Couldn’t!)

Trying To Explain Trust To A 4 Year Old (And Realizing I Couldn’t!)
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Today, my 4 year old toddler stumped me with a question.

Whilst I generally pride myself in being a quick thinker and do particularly well on my toes, when he asked me what “trust” means — I didn’t know what to say. It got me thinking about why a concept so close to my heart was so hard to put into words.

This wasn’t one of my toddler’s random thoughts and question (if you have a 4 year old, you know what I mean!). It all began when he said he doesn’t “trust” a friend. The way he used it? Spot on! It fit perfectly considering the situation he was describing.

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Shining Bright Like A Diamond!

Shining Bright Like A Diamond!

“Fill your life with women that empower you, that help you believe in your magic and aid them to believe in their own exceptional power and their incredible magic too. Women that believe in each other can survive anything. Women who believe in each other create armies that will win kingdoms and wars.”

— Nikita Gill

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Another Year Gone By…

Another Year Gone By…

Another year has passed and I can’t help but wonder how fast the year has sped past on. Can you remember the first hour of 2018? I can like it was yesterday – and it was such a wonderful feeling ringing in the new year in a place I never thought I’d be. It was special, it was heart wrenching, it was amazing and it was sad.  I’m a mixed bundle of emotions at New Year’s – the retrospection of the past year mixed with the exciting unwritten journey ahead makes my head spin in different directions. I remember bringing in 2018 thinking that this year was going to difficult but it was also going to be one of the best there was. Oh boy – I had no idea what I was in for. 😉 Continue reading “Another Year Gone By…”

Life Lessons 101 – Letting Go.

Life Lessons 101 – Letting Go.

A recent forward about how it’s best to steer clear of people who hurt you got me thinking. In retrospective, I was wondering what life threw at me these past couple of years. Life hasn’t always been a piece of cake and it got me thinking about how I let the negativity of some people affect me more than I should have let them. There were some life lessons learned and some forgotten *I’m getting older you know! 😉 *. Of the many lessons learned, one that has stuck with me for a while now, one that I would like to share, is a lesson I learned in my (very!) late 20s *ok, I was just short of being 30 when realization struck!*  and I wish I’d learned it sooner . Continue reading “Life Lessons 101 – Letting Go.”